Community and social gatherings in early Appalachia often involved food, sharing cultural traditions, and strengthening relationships. Understanding, connecting, and passing knowledge all occur through storytelling, sharing personal experiences, and reliving shared history. Gatherings were a time when people from different walks of life and generations might come together in rare moments of leisure, and when they did opportunities for culture sharing would arise.

WORKING TOGETHER

Early Appalachians had a lot of work to do in their daily lives, and larger projects sometimes required more people for completion. Activities like barn raisings and quilting bees capitalized on these gatherings of people to also provide social opportunities. The act of working together towards a common goal in and of itself strengthens relationships.

WORSHIP

Attending religious services was a social gathering opportunity for many early Appalachians. Some churches would hold social gatherings after services, such as a church picnic, or larger once a year events like Homecoming. Homecoming is a church tradition that originated in the South among Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, and some other religious denominations. It would usually occur close to the anniversary of the church and was an opportunity to celebrate the heritage and history of the church, invite back inactive church members, and remember those in the congregation who have passed away. Although there is some variation, many homecomings included a special guest sermon and a covered dish potluck meal afterward.

FAMILY BONDS

Family reunions for large families in particular were an important part of community building. Extensive families might only ever see each other at these large events, and more distant family connections could be reaffirmed by reminding the family members about their bond and what they share in common.

CELEBRATIONS

Personal milestones like births, weddings, or even the passing away of a loved one were times when Appalachian people wanted to gather in community to share in joys and sorrows. Significant moments mean more when they are shared with others and mutual memories are made.

CONNECTIONS

Just-because gatherings like potlucks were held when desired so that communities could gather and socialize. Some gatherings were very loose and informal, and some might be organized around an activity, such as BINGO.

MUSIC AND DANCE

Live music performances were a chance for early Appalachians to meet and mingle. One might see friends, be introduced to a potential romantic partner, or just have the opportunity to “let loose and cut up.” Many dances came from traditional styles that immigrants brought with them from their homelands. Some styles are often seen as representative of Appalachia, such as old-time string band music and square dancing.

SEASONAL

Holidays and the change of the seasons could be a reason to gather. A special time of year might mean the abundance of the harvest, the promise of longer, brighter days in the new year, or the first signs of spring. Religious holidays often bring family and friends together for food, fellowship, and festivities.

Gathering is an important part of building community in Appalachia. Photographs and information for this column are provided by the Rowell Bosse North Carolina Room, Transylvania County Library. This article was written by Local History Librarian Laura Sperry. Sources available upon request.